> kids tend to blur this even more for many. I think OP meant the opposite -- that when people have children in the Bay Area and want to support them, they'll

> kids tend to blur this even more for many. I think OP meant the opposite -- that when people have children in the Bay Area and want to support them, they'll make moral compromises to do so, given the cost. The very young may not grasp what they are doing, and they may be easily "boiled as frogs", but I think they are more likely to believe that they are not making moral compromises.