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> If they react inappropriately, I'll be cordial and treat them with respect, but I don't want to be friends. If they're way too supportive - the same rule appl
by abeppu 2y ago
> If they react inappropriately, I'll be cordial and treat them with respect, but I don't want to be friends. If they're way too supportive - the same rule applies.
> Really, I'm just looking for people who won't jump down my throat on a faux pas.
I think when cactacea says "huh, ok", this is neither inappropriate, or "jumping down someone's throat", or being "way too supportive" -- so I think by tb_technical's stated standards, cactacea has "passed" the filter, but is understandably alienated.
- lolinder 2y agoRight, but the end goal of the filter isn't just to have a list of passes and fails. The filter exists because OP doesn't want to associate with people who are overly ideological—one way or the other. If someone silently puts OP in a bucket and never reaches out again, the end goal is still achieved.
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- klyrs 2y ago[flagged]