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It’s not just liking a book, as if they named some cliche young adult novel. It’s the magnum opus of the author’s philosophy as a novel. They’re dismissing them
by travisjungroth 2y ago
It’s not just liking a book, as if they named some cliche young adult novel. It’s the magnum opus of the author’s philosophy as a novel. They’re dismissing them for the philosophical views they’re celebrating.
It’s the other end of the spectrum from disliking someone because their favorite book is The Grapes of Wrath or A Brave New World. I actually agree with the values expressed in those books, and I can also understand someone not wanting to be friends with me because of it.
But at least if you’re going to have friends with a different philosophy, seems like a better move to reach across to people who believe in community and collaboration over self-interest and individualism. That’s just me, though.
- Y_Y 2y agoI can like a book without agreeing with it.
- cactacea 2y agoAnd have it change your life?
- dmitrygr 2y ago> And have it change your life? Yes, a literary work can both be life-changing and not something you agree with. EG: I do not at all agree with Marx. Me and others reading his works changed my life irrevocably. Ditto for Hitler.
- travisjungroth 2y agoBut you do get that if you said "The best book I've ever read was Mein Kampf in 8th grade. Changed my life." then some people very reasonably won't want to be your friend, right?
- dmitrygr 2y agoYou had me until "reasonably". I'd rather friends who have read than friends who prefer ignorance.
- travisjungroth 2y agoI wouldn’t hold it against someone for having read it. Again, big difference between reading a book and saying it’s your favorite.
- Y_Y 2y agoWould you befriend someone who said, "The best book I've ever read was Mein Kampf in 8th grade. My life, however, was entirely unaltered thereby."?
- travisjungroth 2y agoI’d be mostly confused. How did the best book you’ve ever read not alter your life? I was just quoting the actual question in the comment.
- travisjungroth 2y agoAbsolutely. You could say the ideas are well presented or it provided a contrast that clarified your own thinking. But, if someone asks "What's your favorite book?" and you say "The best book I've ever read was Atlas Shrugged in 8th grade. Changed my life." then... come on. You either like it or are quite the tricky communicator. "Someone dropped it off a bridge, hit my abusive step-dad and killed him dead. Soft spot for Ayn Ran ever since, beliefs aside." That's someone I'd want to be friends with.
- Y_Y 2y agoTricky communicators make the best friends.
- BigGreenJorts 2y agoOk but your favourite book?
- hgomersall 2y agoOn a tangent, did you find brave news world describing a dystopia or a utopia? I find myself convinced of both depending on my mood.
- dmitrygr 2y agoBrave new world describes ... approximately the 21st century 1st world countries' upper-middle class. We are living it. TokTok/YouTube is soma.