Accept that wherever you live has transformed from a high trust area to a low trust one. Where I live, just leaving a package outside the fence (postman can't

Accept that wherever you live has transformed from a high trust area to a low trust one. Where I live, just leaving a package outside the fence (postman can't even get to the door) would be bonkers. And this isn't an area with a lot of crime. People just don't trust eachother much to begin with.