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Yeah, but if you're a bully, you've probably been in multiple fights. You sometimes relish fighting. Sometimes you have a "pain wish". And if you're part of a g
by EGreg 2y ago
Yeah, but if you're a bully, you've probably been in multiple fights. You sometimes relish fighting. Sometimes you have a "pain wish". And if you're part of a gang, it might turn out badly for the person who fights, because they will later gang up on this person outside of school, and they don't have any honor to fight fairly 1on1:
https://nypost.com/2023/12/13/news/student-hospitalized-after-attack-at-marjory-stoneman-douglas-high-school/ https://nypost.com/2023/12/13/news/student-hospitalized-afte...
https://mustreadalaska.com/watch-video-clark-middle-school-student-savagely-attacked-by-student-gang-during-gym-class/ https://mustreadalaska.com/watch-video-clark-middle-school-s...
https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceUK/comments/lxxbjv/my_12yo_child_was_attacked_on_way_home_from/ https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceUK/comments/lxxbjv/my_12...
And also, you can get in trouble yourself for fighting, especially if you're a male and the bully is a female that's in a group that "picks on" you:
https://utahparentcenter.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/EleEd-IfYourAreATarget.pdf https://utahparentcenter.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/EleE...
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=7646992 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=7646992
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=7647094 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=7647094
Wouldn't it be better to just tell your parents and involve the authorities at the school or police?
- Retric 2y ago> Wouldn't it be better to just tell your parents and involve the authorities at the school or police? If it worked then great, many kids find that it doesn’t work. No strategy solves all conflicts. Posturing as if you’re going to resort to violence can definitely backfire, but when backed up by a history of violence it’s far from useless.