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> The "just be yourself" advice is so hard, because it's what actually work For attractive people or at least those whose attractiveness is not totally niche
by scotty79 2y ago
> The "just be yourself" advice is so hard, because it's what actually work
For attractive people or at least those whose attractiveness is not totally niche
- mlyle 2y agoNah. I'm not conventionally attractive. But still, figuring out how to better myself, and then just -relax- and be myself, was what built meaningful connections.
- klyrs 2y agoOf the dozens of men I work with, two are eligible bachelors. Both are above-average in their physical attractiveness. I promise you, that is not what women are looking for.
- scotty79 2y agoIs it being yourself then?