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Not specific to dance here, but just replying to your general thesis: The "just be yourself" advice is so hard, because it's what actually works, but it's also
by mlyle 2y ago
Not specific to dance here, but just replying to your general thesis:
The "just be yourself" advice is so hard, because it's what actually works, but it's also difficult to do when you care about the outcome.
And, of course, it has a prerequisite of a whole lot of work to make "yourself" into something worthwhile and interesting. Of course one would like a shortcut that still works if you've not done the prior coursework. ;)
- scotty79 2y ago> The "just be yourself" advice is so hard, because it's what actually work For attractive people or at least those whose attractiveness is not totally niche
- mlyle 2y agoNah. I'm not conventionally attractive. But still, figuring out how to better myself, and then just -relax- and be myself, was what built meaningful connections.
- klyrs 2y agoOf the dozens of men I work with, two are eligible bachelors. Both are above-average in their physical attractiveness. I promise you, that is not what women are looking for.
- scotty79 2y agoIs it being yourself then?