That's why I'm saying "here's how not to act like that kind of person." Specifically, I'm saying "here's how to avoid pushing things to the point where 'I don'

That's why I'm saying "here's how not to act like that kind of person." Specifically, I'm saying "here's how to avoid pushing things to the point where 'I don't want to talk about that' is something that has to be said."