> What I wonder... would they have reached out back then not just for computer info but also for psychological support and a way out of poverty, would that have

> What I wonder... would they have reached out back then not just for computer info but also for psychological support and a way out of poverty, would that have worked? Joining someone in their hobbies is a much much smaller ask than having that same someone listen to (and maybe advise about) your problems, or having them provide career coaching / direct financial support. One is "lets have fun together", the other is "please stranger, do me this huge favor". > And why didn't they? Knowing who to ask might be a bit much to ask of a kid. Even aside from asking for unreciprocated favors being generally not a thing most people do easily (or look on favorably).