As a south Asian man, I noticed that I would get very few likes from white women in London. And I began to internalise this implicit feedback, Back before Matc

As a south Asian man, I noticed that I would get very few likes from white women in London. And I began to internalise this implicit feedback, Back before Match.com bought OKCupid, the OKCupid blog had some horrifying gems. IIRC, Asian men had the lowest ratings among women and black women had the lowest ratings among men. Looks like Gwern archived their blog posts: https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/raceandattraction20092014.html https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/raceandattraction20... Regarding general complaints about the awful online dating experience for men, this post made it clear that it's a descent into madness for the average guy: https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/whyyoushouldneverpayforonlinedating.html https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/whyyoushouldneverpa...