There are six human needs, they say: certainty, variety (uncertainty), significance, love, growth and contribution Cooking alone doesn't check the same boxes.

There are six human needs, they say: certainty, variety (uncertainty), significance, love, growth and contribution Cooking alone doesn't check the same boxes. It probably gives you only more "certainty" of being fed, but you're not craving more of that. Cooking for you and your wife probably gives you some significance (you like being appreciated for making a nice meal), love and a sense of contribution. Way more satisfying!