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do you work with any women or 100% men?
by spencerchubb 2y ago
do you work with any women or 100% men?
- candiddevmike 2y agoNot OP, but I'm from the Midwest, and around here guys has always (and seemingly will always) mean a non gender specific group of people. It's a shame that folks see it as a micro aggression these days, as we really aren't being offensive with it. It's just really, really hard to change the behavior when most of the Midwest (women included) are still perfectly fine referring to groups of people as guys.
- aprilthird2021 2y agoIf it makes you feel better, I have worked with lots of diverse groups and everyone understood guys as a gender neutral term. I think people are a lot meaner and nitpicky online than in real life
- getcrunk 2y agoSometimes girls get bothered about being called dude or bro. For the former, I’m certainly not going to call you dudette. And it seems widely accepted that dude is gender neutral. As for bro … I can understand why it bother girls, but I always remember my close friend who says bro so much he frequently uses it even with his wife!!
- spencerchubb 2y agoalso lived in the midwest my whole life, mix of rural and cities; this is false
- cortesoft 2y agoI work with many women, but I don't manage any