Drives me mental this, I dislike having to go over conversations to find if someone has replied or if someone replies to a previous comment than my last ones I

Drives me mental this, I dislike having to go over conversations to find if someone has replied or if someone replies to a previous comment than my last ones I end up going through them all. I don't really want an email whenever someone replies but rather some type of notification when I visit the site. Emails are intrusive in my eyes and clutter my inbox, I just want to be told when someone has replied when I visit the site.