This sounds like the difference between going to a singles event to try and meet people instead of just bumping into them where you already are. One is much mor

This sounds like the difference between going to a singles event to try and meet people instead of just bumping into them where you already are. One is much more likely to actually form something substantial, even though I'm hugely in-favor of focusing social time on doing this outside of work, it's important to have some level of that with coworkers I'd think.