Cookies and birthday cakes are always welcome. Just don't be the only one bringing them in. It is however, okay to be the person who organizes everybody else t

Cookies and birthday cakes are always welcome. Just don't be the only one bringing them in. It is however, okay to be the person who organizes everybody else to make sure that people get cards and stuff on their birthdays or other big life events. If organizing the card and gifts when a cow orker's girlfriend had a baby makes me the office dad, then go clean your room, it's a pig sty.