> The remark was self-aggrandizing and completely dismissive of my colleague's hard work. Ok, but was it wrong? Put your friend's precious fee-fees aside, and

> The remark was self-aggrandizing and completely dismissive of my colleague's hard work. Ok, but was it wrong? Put your friend's precious fee-fees aside, and ask yourself the important question: was it wrong? If it wasn't, then it sounds like the problem was with your friend, wasting everyone's time with a pedestrian analysis that benefited nothing except for their own ego, so they can be heard, so they can climb that all-important neurotypical status ladder, so they can put another insignificant bullet point on their C.V. Was it wrong?