Met mine in my mid-30s via a dating app. We had some shared interests that connected us at first, but what kept us going over the long term is having compatible

Met mine in my mid-30s via a dating app. We had some shared interests that connected us at first, but what kept us going over the long term is having compatible values and personalities. (And we still do enjoy the shared interests, of course). If you don't have any outside interests, well, either develop some (Meetup's one option, or check your local paper's calendar), or you're going to have to find someone with an equally single-track mind (nothing wrong with that). There's still fewer women in tech, so looking outside of work helps.