It isn't your communication skills. There's no natural filter or limiting in online forums. People who would normally be reigned in socially, or simply exclude

It isn't your communication skills. There's no natural filter or limiting in online forums. People who would normally be reigned in socially, or simply excluded from conversations have nothing stopping them from spiralling conversations out of control. This is not an easy problem to solve - we've been trying to solve it for the last 30 or so years.