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Hmm that sounds a bit shallow and materialistic tbh. But I have to say I'm an outlier anyway, I've never been married and I prefer polyamorous relationships. A
by wkat4242 2y ago
Hmm that sounds a bit shallow and materialistic tbh.
But I have to say I'm an outlier anyway, I've never been married and I prefer polyamorous relationships. And I've never had real money to speak of. So I'm not really the right type.
I do know the families with a big house and fancy dinner parties with Sunday silverware. But I tend to stay away from those settings :) I don't fit in and I don't even own a suit or dress shirt that fits.
So yeah I probably just don't 'get it' :)
- kelnos 2y ago> Hmm that sounds a bit shallow and materialistic tbh. It is. But the diamond cartel's marketing (at least in the US, I won't speak for other countries) has been so good since well before I was born that diamond = love, romance, relationship, marriage. For many, many, many people, there's an inextricable link between the two. It's super lame. But it's how it is. Hopefully that's already changing.
- ninetyninenine 2y agoIt is shallow. Women want tribute or some sort of proof that you care. This is the true meaning of romance. Romance is essentially a man paying some sort of tribute to a woman mostly in the form of time, effort and/or money.
- hungie 2y agoCan we avoid painting with such a broad brush? "Women want tribute" is a wild thing to assert.
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- dang 2y agoYikes—you can't post like this to HN and we have to ban accounts that do. It's not what this site is for, and destroys what it is for. If you wouldn't mind reviewing https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and taking the intended spirit of the site more to heart, we'd be grateful.
- hungie 2y ago