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Huh, seems I'm prone to #4. I don't force people together that don't want to be together, but I do find it close-minded in most cases that they think those thin
by mettamage 2y ago
Huh, seems I'm prone to #4. I don't force people together that don't want to be together, but I do find it close-minded in most cases that they think those things. I keep those thoughts to myself and simply ask them their feelings about that other person, and I always find that I can't relate and then keep it at that.
I find it hard to accept it's social fallacy. I can see the others though, so I'll take it seriously and work to a point where I can at least understand the perspective. The why this is a fallacy isn't really explained. I do get that if it is perceived as a fallacy that certain requests are in appropriate
- amonon 2y agoHere is my perspective: Ultimately, we are creatures with complicated social lives. Friendship is not transitive and there are a variety of reasons why two people won't get along, and the fact that you are friends with both of those people only has a mild impact on the chances that they will get along.
- mettamage 2y agoThat's fair enough. Thanks for helping my thinking here a bit! :)