> It doesn't really matter, unless you let it matter. Yeah, that's the kind of pathetic platitude that condescends in order to pretend nothing's wrong. Having

> It doesn't really matter, unless you let it matter. Yeah, that's the kind of pathetic platitude that condescends in order to pretend nothing's wrong. Having trouble because you're black, female, wheelchair-bound, recovering from alcoholism, etc.? Pft. It wouldn't matter if only you'd stop letting it matter.