A related issue happened when a very introverted friend wanted to find other quiet bookish friends and would scoff at trying to befriend highly social people at

A related issue happened when a very introverted friend wanted to find other quiet bookish friends and would scoff at trying to befriend highly social people at a party. I had to explain that quiet people will very rarely find each other because they are quiet. You need that highly social person to mediate an introduction! They can introduce you to the other quiet people because knowing people is fun for them - social graphs form hub and spoke models because of people like this