I think this may depend on where in the US you live. In the South, a real consideration in interactions is "what if this person decides to shoot me" likewise be

I think this may depend on where in the US you live. In the South, a real consideration in interactions is "what if this person decides to shoot me" likewise behaving in a way that is perceived as immoral (read: queer) is a great way to lose your job or (if you are a minor) be thrown out of your home.