I am such a person. I can turn anything into an argument. I know that this makes me difficult to be around, but it's incredibly hard for me to stop being comple

I am such a person. I can turn anything into an argument. I know that this makes me difficult to be around, but it's incredibly hard for me to stop being completely focused on myself. I can't just decide "from now on I'll completely change my personality for the better". In my relationships, I not only caused lots of silly arguments, but I also attracted people who, for one reason or another, were an endless source of frustration. When I look at relationships around me, most of them suck. There are some good ones, but they're rare, and it's absolutely essential that both parties of a relationship are chill people in general, which is rare.