And they don't all feel victimized by some oppressive system of sexism I wonder, is there a non-patronizing way to be positive and supportive of the women who

And they don't all feel victimized by some oppressive system of sexism I wonder, is there a non-patronizing way to be positive and supportive of the women who DO feel, if not victimized, at least frustrated by "some oppressive system of sexism"?