Ha ha, it just is what it is. I chose not to strangle her twenty years ago. Things are good. I really don't understand how people think they can engineer thems

Ha ha, it just is what it is. I chose not to strangle her twenty years ago. Things are good. I really don't understand how people think they can engineer themselves into some type of perfect relationship. You could easily end up miserable either way. My wife has so many good qualities. Everyone loves her and she is obsessed with me.