She sounds contrarian. Some people (of either gender) are naturally like that. They'll argue for the sake of arguing. It's quite draining and can really wear on

She sounds contrarian. Some people (of either gender) are naturally like that. They'll argue for the sake of arguing. It's quite draining and can really wear on you after a while. Best to find someone else. Why do they do this? The reasons aren't exactly singular. For some it's tied to deep-seated insecurity, for others it's a matter of pride/principle. And sometimes it's the only way that they know how to interact with others. This set has a strong overlap with the set of people who offer their opinion without being asked.