> how many other people on HN are in a relationship this fiery? I'm not in such a relationship anymore. > Are you mostly enjoying it or not enjoying it? I ne

> how many other people on HN are in a relationship this fiery? I'm not in such a relationship anymore. > Are you mostly enjoying it or not enjoying it? I never enjoyed it at the time. > Do you all believe this is an inevitability for most couples who have just been together for a long time? Not at all, I have since found that healthy relationships without silly, draining arguments are absolutely possible and enjoyable.