> So I found myself correcting her again and again and ironing out the actual facts so she had them right. And I came to realize that her mistakes were probably

> So I found myself correcting her again and again and ironing out the actual facts so she had them right. And I came to realize that her mistakes were probably not accidents, but she was intentionally prompting me to reinforce the same narrative as I'd stated it, because if someone is lying, fabricating, or embellishing the truth, they won't be able to repeatedly insist on the facts as retained in their memory. I think I misunderstood you the first time I read this, so let me verify my revised understanding: You're saying that she purposely feeding back false information to check to see whether you were a reliable narrator? If you fail to correct misinformation, then you have a loose relationship with the truth (either because you're lying, or confused, or perhaps have a mental illness).