It isn't a slur, but it starts heated conversations because we already have "gay" and "straight" it's like someone coming up to you and saying you are FAE! well

It isn't a slur, but it starts heated conversations because we already have "gay" and "straight" it's like someone coming up to you and saying you are FAE! well what's a fae? It derives from middle earth lore, it means white person! well I don't want to be called a fae! And the fae user accuses the non-user of a bunch of crimes and starts grandstanding. It's just bad UX for both sides.