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> I love how many folks desperately try to throw blame on literally anybody When I read opinions like this, I immediately have two thoughts. 1) What makes peo
by rootusrootus 2y ago
> I love how many folks desperately try to throw blame on literally anybody
When I read opinions like this, I immediately have two thoughts.
1) What makes people think it's their right to shame anyone else? The 'look in the mirror' advice is pretty universal.
2) Is there even anyone qualified to make comments like this? Am I to assume that the folks who imply their superiority do not in fact have their own failings? Glass house and all that.
I think perhaps it's more complicated, and declaring it a moral failing is not going to improve anyone's life.
- jajko 2y agoFails I own are the fails I try to tackle. If its outside force, then the only action can be altering that force (good luck changing nation's mindsets and values) or cutting off from it. I chose the owning approach, it works very nicely for my entire life so far, since its work between me and me so whatever is happening outside has no impact. Doesn't make it an easier life, in contrary, but much much better overall. A plus is building stronger 'character' in challenges for lack of better words.