I don't know if hate is the motivation here. Munchausen by proxy (now apparently called FDIA) is a recognized mental illness, and it's usually motivated by othe

I don't know if hate is the motivation here. Munchausen by proxy (now apparently called FDIA) is a recognized mental illness, and it's usually motivated by other things than hate. Consider the possibility that divorce is the opposite of the goal: a sick and dependent spouse can't leave you.