I want to disagree with many commenters here saying "Just work on your willpower". I think that OP's correct. Yes, you can and you need to work on it. But why

I want to disagree with many commenters here saying "Just work on your willpower". I think that OP's correct. Yes, you can and you need to work on it. But why should you go the hard way only for the sake of hardship? If you need help, then rely on it in the meantime. Willpower's limited resource.