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My wife and I have struggled greatly with infertility. But nobody wants to help when you can’t conceive. Certainly not the ACA. I suspect there’s often an anti
by pyuser583 2y ago
My wife and I have struggled greatly with infertility. But nobody wants to help when you can’t conceive. Certainly not the ACA.
I suspect there’s often an anti-natal bias at work: unwanted children have a very low negative value (like toxic waste), while wanted children are a luxury good.
You mentioned a cost-benefit ratio. How does this calculate the pain of not being able to have more desired children?
- toomuchtodo 2y agoSeveral states require insurance cover IVF and there are always children available for adoption. People who want kids are not my TAM, I cannot speak to their unmet desires. We all must grieve that which we want but cannot have. Life is inherently unfair. I can speak to the burden of unwanted children though. I am sorry to hear of your struggle and wish you well.