To generalize. When people fail they can blame themselves or can examine how to change. I saw one person try open a gate, fail and say they were no good with me

To generalize. When people fail they can blame themselves or can examine how to change. I saw one person try open a gate, fail and say they were no good with mechanical things. I said "Its not you, the gates broken" and the person immediately opened the gate. This is pervasive. "I'll see it when I believe it" as the saying goes.