I think the two errors - imagining non-existent rules, and ignoring rules that exist - are related errors. The foundational skill is accepting that the machine

I think the two errors - imagining non-existent rules, and ignoring rules that exist - are related errors. The foundational skill is accepting that the machine is never wrong because the machine is also never "right", the machine doesn't actually make decisions, it's a construct of physics following a pile of physical laws and not a person to be negotiated with.