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If I had not learned about PDA(Pathological Demand Avoidance) and that I appear to be suffering from milder version of it, I would have no idea how strong the d
by rini17 2y ago
If I had not learned about PDA(Pathological Demand Avoidance) and that I appear to be suffering from milder version of it, I would have no idea how strong the drive for autonomy can be. And in moderation, it's very healthy part of human character. You should value it. You really don't want to readily subject yourself to all the demands both from outside AND inside. Just because they sound reasonable. Anything can be made to sound reasonable.
- Suppafly 2y ago>If I had not learned about PDA(Pathological Demand Avoidance) and that I appear to be suffering from milder version of it, I would have no idea how strong the drive for autonomy can be. I wonder if that explains the behavior of some people I know that seem to chronically choose the worst decision any chance they get. They may just be rebelling against what the obviously good decision would be.