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> As a gamer dad, I try to show my kid better games to play, but because they aren't free, his friends can't play. Just drives him to keep playing and wanting m

> As a gamer dad, I try to show my kid better games to play, but because they aren't free, his friends can't play. Just drives him to keep playing and wanting more Robux. It's compounded when his favorite Youtubers play... If there's a paid game your kid really likes, perhaps you can talk to his friend's parents and buy the friend a copy of the game. ...I say talking to the friend's parents first, because just gifting a game to the friends would be creepy. But buying friends copies of a game we want to play together is something my friend group routinely does and we're all adults with disposable income.

wavemode 2y ago
> just gifting a game to the friends would be creepy lol well this certainly depends on how it's done. Walking up to them in a trench coat and handing them a disc? Probably creepy. But you could also just, like, send them a gift key on Steam...
- amclennon 2y ago
  Unless this person is literally Santa Claus, I suspect a lot of parents might question the motives of a grown man sending gifts to their children without their knowledge.
  - account42 2y ago
    Just give your kid extra keys to hand to his friends lol, no need to make this complicated.
  - Muromec 2y ago
    Just talk to parents. Maybe you will have lan party with them too.
  - mulmen 2y ago
    The key is “without their knowledge”. Seems like an easy thing to explain to a parent. Plus it’s reasonable you’d ask the parents so they have a chance to say yes/no to the game.
- whoknew1122 2y ago
  Having been a victim of grooming, trust me. It's better to talk to the parents than to give a child a gift without the parents' knowledge.
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- johnnyanmac 2y ago
  Yes much better. Send an unsolicited game on steam to a minor. Maybe one whose parents have more limits on content than you.
neilv 2y ago
Excellent idea. Two additional reasons: (1) many parents would want veto power on what kids spent their time on and are exposed to, including video games; and (2) you could suggest quietly buying the game through the parents, to avoid complicating the kids' relationship with getting stuff. Some other, more expensive, activities (e.g., tennis lessons together, when the family of one of the BFFs isn't affluent) are harder for more people to do this, but video games are relatively inexpensive.

wavemode 2y ago

> just gifting a game to the friends would be creepy lol well this certainly depends on how it's done. Walking up to them in a trench coat and handing them a disc? Probably creepy. But you could also just, like, send them a gift key on Steam...

amclennon 2y ago
Unless this person is literally Santa Claus, I suspect a lot of parents might question the motives of a grown man sending gifts to their children without their knowledge.
- account42 2y ago
  Just give your kid extra keys to hand to his friends lol, no need to make this complicated.
- Muromec 2y ago
  Just talk to parents. Maybe you will have lan party with them too.
- mulmen 2y ago
  The key is “without their knowledge”. Seems like an easy thing to explain to a parent. Plus it’s reasonable you’d ask the parents so they have a chance to say yes/no to the game.
whoknew1122 2y ago
Having been a victim of grooming, trust me. It's better to talk to the parents than to give a child a gift without the parents' knowledge.
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johnnyanmac 2y ago
Yes much better. Send an unsolicited game on steam to a minor. Maybe one whose parents have more limits on content than you.

neilv 2y ago

Excellent idea. Two additional reasons: (1) many parents would want veto power on what kids spent their time on and are exposed to, including video games; and (2) you could suggest quietly buying the game through the parents, to avoid complicating the kids' relationship with getting stuff. Some other, more expensive, activities (e.g., tennis lessons together, when the family of one of the BFFs isn't affluent) are harder for more people to do this, but video games are relatively inexpensive.