> What goes wrong with the classic soft-delete approach? The one where every table has a boolean is_deleted column and hopefully the deleting code updates the c

> What goes wrong with the classic soft-delete approach? The one where every table has a boolean is_deleted column and hopefully the deleting code updates the correct subgraph of records at the same time? > It typically rots as you expand your model and add features. It's not clear what significance different tables have, and you you can't "restore" things with any reliability or safety. That may be because of relational/index conflicts, or because you don't have enough information about how it was originally deleted to actually "restore" something that is both correct and useful, or because there are actually 3 different kinds of restoration schemes/scopes but current problem calls for a fourth. The long and short of soft deletes is that it breaks my data's correctness guarantees WRT referential integrity: i.e. I 'delete' a record while there are still references to it, and the RDBMS cannot even warn me, much less stop me! If I wanted broken data, I'd use a NoSQL DB, or flat files even.