> I routinely get beaten by small women because I’m not a spazoid and I want my training partners to enjoy training with me. This is not the kind of thing I’m

> I routinely get beaten by small women because I’m not a spazoid and I want my training partners to enjoy training with me. This is not the kind of thing I’m talking about. Of course we all regularly get “beaten” by people with less skill and who are smaller, or bigger, or anything else - but I’m not talking about training with a partner or letting them practice a technique during a roll. I’m talking about people that walk in with their egos very high and their skill very low. There are those who come in and are almost afraid to use any strength at all. Then there are those who believe that strength is all you need, so on their first few rolls they gas out immediately and then get rocked. I’m not suggesting that two trained people of vastly different weight classes would be equally matched. That would be absurd. Also, I’m not talking about your life being on the line. I’m talking about BJJ.