3 ms·The Messaging Dilemma: Unraveling the Hidden Costs of DIY Platforms5 points by mesibo 2y agojevier 2y agoAbsolutely with this! I once built a messaging server with nod and while it ran fine for a few days, keeping it up was a hassle. Eventually, I moved to a thirdparty platformromish 2y ago[dead]romish 2y ago[dead]lgv60user 2y agoapple example is dot on