There are people who have discovered that their parents lied about their baby stories and instead they were part of mass kidnappings/government schemes, like Li

There are people who have discovered that their parents lied about their baby stories and instead they were part of mass kidnappings/government schemes, like Liebensborn and the disappeared children in Argentina and Spain. Or more individual stories, like "My mom is actually my grandma". These days the professional advice is not to keep that secret from your adopted children precisely because the revelation itself can be much more damaging than the knowledge. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lost_children_of_Francoism https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lost_children_of_Francoism