You're forgetting that in this day and age there are still people who've never done online dating because they're coming out of a long-term relationship. These

You're forgetting that in this day and age there are still people who've never done online dating because they're coming out of a long-term relationship. These people are still honest in their first few weeks. When they find the right person, they'll get off the app as soon as possible. That's my experience anyway, I got married to one of them. I've been on the apps for a few months prior to that in my whole life due to a long-term relationship before that. It can work. But you gotta be willing to be strategic about it. It helped that I loved strategizing about this.