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I had the same thought but a split second later I remembered why I'm sitting on the couch with a screen in front of my eyes on a freaking Sunday morning. There
by ziggyzecat 2y ago
I had the same thought but a split second later I remembered why I'm sitting on the couch with a screen in front of my eyes on a freaking Sunday morning.
There's probably something around two dozen better options where I could "speed date" (talk to/flirt with) a bunch of people who will share some space & time on a sunny Sunday morning.
And since I know people with money, I know that "being able to afford xyz" doesn't mean shit. Even fuck you money doesn't. Sure, some "chicks" roll with it, but I never heard or read words from one of those chicks (traveling, Dubai, family, friends of friends in theater) that resonated with me or made me think: "potentially a good enough Mom."
But then again, a 100 bucks isn't that much for a working, single dude.
The need to know so much about a person before a date is just another sign of subliminal depression, mania and obsession.
Maybe they should start putting dating profiles into captchas or something.
Is this a human? Do you like her looks? Do you like her last tweet? No? Based on our data points, you should. Access denied. Let's try again.
I recommend that "busy"-no-time-people find some way to prime their brain for exploration of humans and characters.
Instead of methodological fault finding you simply make it methodological traits-that-I-like finding.
How does it work? How does _she_ work?
- anal_reactor 2y ago> And since I know people with money It's not about "rich people must be good" but rather "most poor people are bad"
- ziggyzecat 2y ago> "most poor people are bad" That made me chuckle and reminded me of how the YouTube algorithm kept recommending that I watch 'Peter Singer - Ordinary People Are Evil for years. I still haven't watched it but life experience does tell a somewhat fitting story.
- shepherdjerred 2y ago> Instead of methodological fault finding you simply make it methodological traits-that-I-like finding. That's an interesting pivot. With this mindset, how do you distinguish settling from a reasonable compromise?