It sounds like the problem is inherent - people are lying about themselves, about their lifestyle, about who they really are, mostly online but the same in real

It sounds like the problem is inherent - people are lying about themselves, about their lifestyle, about who they really are, mostly online but the same in real life. I found that it's better to be more open and transparent. It might hurt the chances, but it filters many people that can't seem to comprehend the life complexity.