Pulling the rug out from your child is not the way to help them become self-reliant. If the expectation up until this point is that they would get financial sup

Pulling the rug out from your child is not the way to help them become self-reliant. If the expectation up until this point is that they would get financial support no matter what, you need to transition to a point where they’re self-reliant. You should still push at every step, but that is too big a change to tackle all at once.