I specifically am turned off by the superlatives aspect of the questions, as in "what is the best..." or "what is the most...". It immediately leads me to thin

I specifically am turned off by the superlatives aspect of the questions, as in "what is the best..." or "what is the most...". It immediately leads me to think about what metric is being used to measure it, since my "best" or "most" something may not be yours, and so I can't really answer, and instead would go off on a tangent about the meta aspect of the question. So, if you are going to ask me about something, just ask without forcing me to rank things against some undefined scale.