Yes. Though I might use a less-judgemental word that "tainted". And note that it's okay for parents to occasionally wish for a different world. But real-worl

Yes. Though I might use a less-judgemental word that "tainted". And note that it's okay for parents to occasionally wish for a different world. But real-world kids are what you get, not what you wish for. If your kid didn't hit the right jackpot in the genetic lottery, there's really no chance of him playing in the NBA. If she doesn't much like practicing music, then "concert pianist" is out. Etc., etc. And a heavy focus on the kid excelling at the parent's "Required Talents" list, vs. stuff that the kid enjoys or is good at, often gets really bad for the kid's mental health.