These questions are a huge turnoff to me. They suggest a hustle mindset that just wants to get certain results. For me, and I suspect a lot of others, the jou

These questions are a huge turnoff to me. They suggest a hustle mindset that just wants to get certain results. For me, and I suspect a lot of others, the journey in getting to know someone is a huge part. The small talk, the process of getting more comfortable to ask deeper questions, etc is all part of the journey. Being asked these questions at the outset feels like the person asking is just trying to get more check marks for non-superficial relationships without putting in the time.