Yeah, well, I thought I could find something about finding the motivation to get to know someone. Alas, I was wrong. This assumes I already want to get to know

Yeah, well, I thought I could find something about finding the motivation to get to know someone. Alas, I was wrong. This assumes I already want to get to know someone, but that almost never happens to me. Lately, I've been enjoying superficial things. When you come into contact with something superficial — whether it's people, objects, or relationships — it slaps you in the face with the reality that everything ends. It shows its true face at the first encounter. The opposite things, the ones that give you deep connection and long-lasting relationships, are the illusion. They provide a false sense of permanence, meaning, or some deep mystical value that doesn't exist. Given enough time, everything will end. So I'm stuck at the previous step: I don't know how to find the motivation to get to know someone.